"Orang Kata Bila Kita Mengandung Ni, Anak Jadi Sensitif, Manja & Expressive" - Hanis Zalikha Cerita Tentang Yusuf

"Tapi yang paling menang is the playdough. Dia suka sangat dan it bought us plenty of time to eat and chat with our friends.

"Tapi orang cakap bila kita mengandung ni, anak jadi sensitif, manja dan expressive. I never gave too much thought on it, until this trip," tulis Hanis di satu entri di Instagramnya.

Menurut Hanis lagi, dia dan Hairul tak pernah melihat Yusuf sangat 'melekat' dan ekspresif sebelum ini.

"And the silliest part about it all (come to think of it now) naper kita tak bagi je dia handphone time dia moody lol.

"Maybe sebab memang tak biasakan so tak terlintas langsung. Jadi terperasan satu benda, perkara yang memerlukan extra effort dalam parenting is the explaining," tulis Hanis lagi.

Menurut Hanis, Yusuf mungkin tidak memahaminya kali pertama diberitahu, mahupun kali kedua. Dia mungkin juga tidak mahu memahami apatah lagi ketika tidak puas hati.

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I’ve prepared lots of toys and activities for him beforehand tapi yang paling menang is the playdough. Dia suka sangat and it bought us plenty of time to eat and chat with our friends. Tapi orang cakap bila kita mengandung ni, anak jadi sensitif, manja dan expressive. I never gave too much thought on it, until this trip. We have never seen Yusuf this clingy and expressive before. And the silliest part about it all (come to think of it now) naper kita tak bagi je dia handphone time dia moody lol. Maybe sebab memang tak biasakan so tak terlintas langsung. Jadi terperasan satu benda, perkara yang memerlukan extra effort dalam parenting is the explaining. They won’t get it the first time, the second time, heck they will refuse to understand apatah lagi time tengah tak puas hati. Tapi memang tanggungjawab kita nak terangkan, terangkan, terangkan sampai dia faham. Dalam kesabaran atau kemarahan pun masih duk menerangkan. We figured it should be better than asking him to just be quiet. / Kalau nak prepare toys and activities pergi kedai murah jelah borong. Kitorang beli2 hampir semua dekat Daiso hihi.

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"Tapi memang tanggungjawab kita nak terangkan, terangkan, terangkan sampai dia faham. Dalam kesabaran atau kemarahan pun masih duk menerangkan. We figured it should be better than asking him to just be quiet," kata Hanis.