"Suami Saya Pun Gemuk, Kenapa Perlu Nak Cakap Benda Yang Buat Dia Terasa" - Faezah Elai

Pelakon Faezah Elai menafikan dakwaan bahawa dia menyindir bentuk badan wanita yang mewakili Fazura bagi menerima trofi Pelakon Wanita Telenovela Popular pada Anugerah Telenovela 2018, Sabtu lalu.

Menerusi entri di Instagram (IG), Faezah menjelaskan apa yang berlaku pada malam itu adalah salah faham dan tidak berniat untuk mengutuk mana-mana pihak.

"Khas untuk orang yang tujuannya untuk menghentam orang lain dan suka judge orang. Now which part yang i cakap 'lepas anak lima orang..' yang konon ada part body shamming?

"Suami saya pun gemuk takkan saya nak cakap benda yang buat suami saya terasa. Saya cakap anak lima orang sebab wanita yang naik itu pakai tudung dan saya ada lima orang anak. Tak ada kena mengena tentang badan dia.

khas utk org yg tujuannya utk menghentam org lain and suka judge org.. Now which part yg i ckp “ Lepas anak 5 org”.. yg konon ada part body shamming?? Kat mana?? Wehh come on ah, my husband pon gemok,why on earth should i said something yg akan buat my own husband pon boleh terasa?? I said,anak 5 org cause org lain yg naik stage and she is wearing hijab.. tkde kena mengena pon ttg body dia.. i said anak 5 cause aku ada anak 5..so sapa kat sini pikir konon aku bodyshamming kan org? Infact tk terpikir langsung.. I’m not a person who talk about other people’s punya fizikal la.. If u yg tersalah faham why ajak org lain to salah faham jugak? And buat org lain dpt dosa free.. To the girl yg on stage semlm,if u think i was referring to ur body,u are absolutely wrong.. i don’t judge people,jauh sekali nak bodyshamming kan org.. BUT IF MY JOKES BUAT AWK TERASA,THEN I APOLOGISE..AS I DONT MEAN THAT.. PLS TAG THIS MSG TO THE GIRL YG NAIK STAGE LAST NIGHT.. Tq to all the kecaman.. and owh i dont need free publicity sbb it was not me yg post this and trying to buat best.. Klu kita seorg yg positive kita tak kan terfikir benda yg negative .. And pls this is my ig and i tk suka komen2 yg negetive klu rasa nk tulis yg negative or nk mengutuk,boleh buat di ig sendiri,atau ig yg mmg nk kecam saya.. Tq . P/S : And owh that girl yg naik semlm,rasa nya tk gemok pon.. And cuba nk nyatakan yg naik stage semlm tu bukan pemenang tp org lain dlm maksud yg tersirat.. #dontjudge #saynotojudgement
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"Sekarang siapa yang fikir konon saya sindir mengenai badan orang lain. Sedangkan saya tak terfikir langsung.

"Saya bukan individu yang suka bercakap mengenai fizikal orang lain. Jika anda yang tersalah faham, mengapa ajak orang lain untuk salah faham juga? Dan buat orang lain dapat dosa percuma.

"Saya tidak akan berbuat begitu dan jika anda terasa dengan gurauan saya, saya minta maaf. Saya tidak ada niat begitu," tulisnya.

Anugerah Telenovela 2018 telah berlangsung di Plenary Hall Kuala Lumpur Convention Centre (KLCC), Kuala Lumpur pada malam Sabtu lalu.

I once read an essay by Marie Southard Ospina, a Colombian-American journalist living in the UK and since then I’ve been following her works periodically. I found her essays to be refreshing, inspiring and witty. She once wrote that “The things that make us different need to also be perceived as the things that make us most beautiful”. So to my fellow ladies out there, it does not matter whether you are skinny, fat, short, tall, white, black, a Malay, a Chinese, a Buddhist, a Christian, has curly hair, has six fingers in one hand, has a long neck or whatever, just remember that you are beautiful in more than one way as God had originally intended you to be. You’re a gift to the world and those who love you. No matter how you look and your physical appearances, you’re special in your own way. You’re not a limited edition creation from God, you’re a bespoke, unique addition to the universe from Him. Don’t be cowed by small-minded people and their inane chatter or self-serving jokes. Be strong, be confident, be happy, be classy and forgive them for their own insecurities in life. We should celebrate our diversity, be kind and support each other. Remember to:. . Bangun percaya diri, Walau tiada pelangi, Aku tetap di sini, Bangun terus berlari, Walau ribut dan angin, Aku tetap bangun. . Once again, my BIG thanks and HUGS to my friends, fans, families and all you powerful ladies out there for your continuous love and support. I love you more. Believe in yourself! Girl Power!!! #GirlPower #URBeautiful #WomenEmpowerment #SayNoToBodyShaming
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Teks Oleh: Rozaimi Zubaidi